(Issue 74) Changes

I love reading books and articles on body lauguage, mainly because I believe that you can analyse a person more accurately through his subconcious actions. Despite my knowleadge, I had been constantly repremended for having poor Body Lauguage myself.

Now that I am aware, I am determine to change them. I told everyone to remind me whenever they notice, because it has already been a habit and it is hard to kick within days, weeks or maybe even a month.

The most obvious is my standing posture. I hunchback. This posture display a person's lack of confidence and low self-esteem, and when we look at a health point of view, I may have to grow old with a fixed and unsightly posture I would greatly regret.

Then it is my seating posture, when I get too comfortable, I tend to get too laidback, almost to a lying down posture. No wonder, I do have quite a lower back ache problem. I can feel it coming. The worst thing is being lactose detorlerant, I can't get calcium directly from milk.

Third, which is very bad, is that I can't give full attention to the speaker. I have a habit to wonder around and notice the things happening around me. Surrounding actions grap my attention easily. And at the age of 28, I couldn't believe the comments that were/are directing at me. The most recent comment was,"You are more "aunty" then my mother".

To the speaker, I am dis-interested. To me, I am multi-tasking & curious (lame excuse?) I always tell them that I use my ears to listen and my eyes to see. Presently, I have taken this into serious thoughts, and agree that my actions are a disrespect to the speaker, and maybe to Calen, I am cruising at other guys.

Today, I shall admit, I am cruising, but that beautiful bags, accessories, hairstyles, clothes and etc, because of my passion/love/desire to be a designer, and my eye for luxury/charming items. It's not the guys, and if you notice, mine attention is more attracted/disractted by girls dresses and portrait herself.

These three are the main three habits, I am more determine to change/kickoff and I am aware of the instant need to. So friends out there, remind me please. Or better still if you have good ideas on how I can work on it, drop me a comment or two.

Coming into terms with (ugly posture) Me, (learning to take better care of) Myself and (for Calen and) I.

Couldn't find a matching song, haa therefore have to change one sentence of the lyrics... 王力宏 - 改变自己

今早起床了, 看镜子里的我
忽然发现我发型睡得有点KUSO
(忽然发现我的身体語言真的很差)
一点点改变, 有很大的差别

Woke up in the morning, and in the reflection of the mirror,
I suddenly realise that my out of the bed hair looks KUSO
(I suddenly realise that my body language is terrible)
A little change can do alot of difference.