(Issue 23) Physical Looks

Better looking guys are a constant feast for the eyes and a target for cruising, in addition we also let them get away with the things more things that the average Joe, in most real life situations. Contrary, they are also the ones that get negative first impression on their commitment level. Is it sour grapes from the average Joes or did they spoil their own market value by charming their way to get the things they want?

I understand that most of their job nature requires a certain above the average look to 'smith' or 'sweet talk' customers into using their products or services, if so could it be the job environment that molds them into their present selves? Or were they spoiled by the large variety of choices thrown to them willing as "free samples"?

For the good looking, Will they be able to keep up with the trends of good looks to enjoy their current benefits as we moved from one age group check-box to another? Most importantly, will their negative first impression image fade away together with their charm or will the bad reputation they build up during the years stick with them forever?

I am do know a handful of better looking guys that are a pleasure to the eyes with excellent personalities, and in fact they are the victims in most cases, therefore is it fair to stereotype them, or did we let our insecurities of having a cute partner get on top of us? On the other hand, are the average Joes more likely to stray in a relation because they are not familiar with the extra attention, therefore has less self control?

Beauty lies in the eye of the beholder and everyone is a door bitch to their queue of suitors or cruiser. We no longer look at the legal age limit alone for them to gain entry (into our lives, as partners or friends), and this is how nature works, initially when there is a short queue we allowed everyone in, and as the club gains it's popularity we start to have VIP excess with the average Joes wait for their turn, and as the club gets to a close full house, we set a higher standard for entry/re-entry and sometimes the ugly side of you will ignore or bitch our very first customers.

We might not be the good looking "trophy" friend everyone wants to have to boast around, and we complained about being singleton due to our lack of physical qualities, but most of us still choose to strike conversation with a guy who appeals to us physically than say, "Oh I want to know him more because he has such a good heart" on first contact.

Coming to terms with (judging and being judged) Me, (constantly improving my physical shell and spiritual) Myself and (believes that what goes around comes around) I.

Singing in the rain to: TLC - Unpretty
"You can buy your hair if it won't grow
You can fix your nose if he says so
You can buy all the make up, That man can make
But if you can't look inside you, Find out who am I too
Be in the position to make me feel, So damn unpretty
I'll make you unpretty too"