How do we define ourselves as married? Legally their is nothing to bind us together, could it be a joint ownership of a house or adopting a child and raise them like a straight couple would.
Many of us are not ready for a joint ownership of a house, although it is the thing most married couple would do. Is it because we want to have a place over our own to run to when things fall apart, but if you are considering marrying one another should this thought be in your mind?
As for adopting a child, we can never see raising a child as a gay couple would be healthy, however did we think of the abandon child's present future (education and career wise) and his life after adoption? And why is it not legal for a gay parent to raise the child, are we abnormal? Face it many straights are no as loving as gays, so why the biased against us? Is it because it is difficult for the child to acknowledge that he has two fathers? Instead can't we bring him up as two uncles? Then again knowing how vulnerable a relation might come to for us, is it wise to have a pet dog instead of a child?
How do we consider ourselves as married? Holding a ceremony with friends and family or having weekend breakfast with your in-laws? No matter what I guess we are considered marry, not when we can live together under the same roof but it is when we can't live without one another. Thumb of rule, hang on and learn to close one eye along the way. We do not have to worry because even when both of you closes one eye each, you still have two eyes looking, just hold on to each other tight (but if you still find yourselves falling into a hole, it shows you guys are not coordinated enough to walk together).
Coming to terms with (hopefully someone would marry) Me, (and so I wouldn't have to live all by) Myself and (loved to be love and provide love) I.
Singing happily to the tune: 林忆莲 - 至少还有你
如果全世界我也可以放弃
至少还有你值得我去珍惜
而你在这里就是生命的奇迹
Translation: At Least You Are Here - "I may give up the whole world
at least you are here, deserving/be worthy of my treasure/cherish
while you are here, it is the miracle of life"
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