I do find it strange that many people choose to remain single or in a relation not because they are enjoy the bits and pleasure of it. I think I am blessed with a pessimistic attitude that many admired. Although I couldn't deny the fact that I do fall many times, however it is how I get up from the fall that receive admiration and how I could put my past behind and enjoy the present. I do believe that in either phase there are something to rejoice about.
Recently I came across many situations that happened among my friends and learnt that many did not choose to be single and are unhappy about it and vise verse. I am shock about it, but I guess I couldn't comment because I am not in their shoes, however my point is that I would choose to change the situation rather than to hope for things to happen. Only because I think that since we have to live with our own way of life and nobody else, isn't it wise to make the best about it, instead of putting yourself in a miserable situation?
I see it as, when I am single I get to enjoy the things I complain about when I am attached and vise verse. I don't see the point of not enjoying it while I am given the chance to and regret that I didn't, because we can't get the best of both worlds, so I balance it out when I am in each different situation. This way when my situation change, it will not be in my "dislike" list as I had enjoyed the moment with no regrets, rather than to bring the issue up when you know that it is not suitable for the situation you are in. With a healthy balance, you won't feel left out nor be lead into temptation, because you know that you will be able to do it again when you are back in the other situation you "wished" you were in.
Remember it should be a party you should celebrate regardless when you single or in a relationship, just enjoy the "good"s while you are at it.
Coming to terms with (healthy balanced) Me, (compromising temptations my own way, without affecting my lover when I am in a relation or future lover when I am all by) Myself and (pessimistic) I.
Dancing to the beat of: The Cheetah Girls - The Party's Just Begun
Chillin' out, Break it down, That's the way we do it now
Attitude in the groove, Getting into something new
Say goodbye to yesterday, Future looking good to me
All together raise your hands, Time to party, time to dance
Party 'cause you know the future's all yours
Dance till your feet don't touch the floor
Celebrate the day you've waited for
Party like you're ready for so much more
Do it like you know it's never been done
Go a little crazy, have too much fun
Today's the day, come on everyone, The party's just begun
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