(Issue 19) Limited Confidence.

Many of times we rather cruise at someone or have a casual flirt in the hopes that he will come up to you and make a move in trying to know you better. But if he didn't, you either blame yourself for being not charming enough or you kick your arse hard for not making the move and complain to your friends with your "shoulda, woulda, coulda", which would not happen even if God had given you a chance to turn back time.

How do we make assumptions of the guy's standard of choice? Is it his present group of friends he mixed around with or his working environment (i.e. actors, models or stylist)? Must we be of equivalent looks of his friends to be his friend? Is there a possibility that he wishes to have a change of situation but he couldn't because everyone has presume his life for him? If "beauty is in the eye of the beholder", doesn't it meant that only he knows what is is looking for, so therefore instead of "making an ASS out of yoU and ME (assume)", shouldn't we step forward and let him decide if he is ready to have you enter his life?

I maybe what many people perceive as thick-skinned or too confident, however I like to take chances. I see something I like, I give it a shot. Because unlike a gun-shot, I don't get hurt or wound by doing so. Plus the fact that I am able to accept rejections and turn-downs because I do it myself too, therefore I do understand why these things happen, so there is nothing to be bitchy about.

Let us look closely, many times we ask ourselves or gossip to our friends, "What on earth is she/he thinking? They do not even look good even when they are placed a mile away from one another." But in reality, we know they must be really in love to be together, holding hands strolling down the streets in the world of their own. And we know it is the confidence of one man to approach the other. Sometimes, what we call "mismatch" happens and it is not how beautiful look against one another but how beautiful their relation is.

Sometimes, what is not beautiful in looks is beautiful in heart. I have to state a fact that many of you guys are Good Looking, but instead of having confident in yourself we tend to pay more attention to some unreasonable criticisms made by someone ages ago or pay attention to the wrong flaw we have and some even compare themselves to the most gorgeous guy in earth. Trust me, looks is not all about that perfect waistline or that flawless skin, its about how confident you are about yourself.

For once, take the chance forget about what he or his friends are going to think about you (at least they know that you have have the courage they do not have and gossiping and poking fun are what humans do when they are having sour grapes for dinner), approach the guy (along with lots of boozes, if you have to) and make a fool out of yourself, sometimes you will have lots of great unexpected returns.

Coming to terms with (knowing that there is a beautiful something inside) Me, (Loving) Myself and (not Mr shoulda, woulda, coulda) I.

Dancing at the Dancefloor next to Cutie Pie to:潘玮柏, 郭旭&王恺原唱 - Tell Me
just tell me 为什么
眼神有话要说, 是不是你想要认识我
偷偷的看你要让我等多久, 爱就爱不要用慢动作

男子汉的气魄说做就做, 怎么接近你我现在还在摸索
怎么办怎么ㄑ一ㄠˊ怎么挪但是, 就岁她不想做你的女朋友是他的自由

Translation: Tell Me - "Just tell me why is it that you have a look as if you have something to say, could it be you want to get to know me? Stealing glances at you, and see how long you want me to wait, come on don't hestiate if you like me so"
" A man should have a courage to do what he say, however what is holding you back?
What are you worrying about, it is her freedom to choose whether she wants to be your girlfriend after all"